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Komal Qazi

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If I can stop one heart from breaking, I shall not live in vain; If I can ease one life the aching, Or cool one pain, Or help one fainting robin Unto his nest again, I shall not live in vain. -- Emily Dickinson

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On Being a Mommy

thoughts inspired by my daughters
July 24

Crazy kids!

My kids are nuts.  Just so you know: my kids are nuts.  At least the little one is.
 
Terrible 2's, my eye!!  This kid's been 3 for a couple of months, and she just gets crazier every day.  This new thing she does where she wants to run through parking lots is just scary!  What is WITH her?!  And then she laughs about it!  Like driving Mommy to a nervous breakdown is something to giggle about.  I have to hold on to that child's hand like... well, I don't know like what, but tight!
 
They're not called nervous breakdowns anymore, are they?  Well, whatever they're called, I'm headed right for one.  Sigh.
 
I don't think that I'll ever figure out this mommyhood thing!  Is there a single correct way to deal with the insanity and chaos that children bring?  Now what am I supposed to do with a 3-year-old who thinks that running away from Mommy in a parking lot is a fun game?  I've explained the dangers repeatedly, I've yelled, I've begged.... do I keep her in a stroller at all times?
 
I think I'm gonna have to put my kid on a leash.
June 16

bored

I need to do something fun this weekend.  You hear so much about how we spend all our time taking care of everyone else and don't spend any time on ourselves... and about how important it is to take time for yourself.  Blah, blah, blah.  Who has that kind of time?
 
On the other hand, I think I need to go out to the movies with friends... or something.  Anything, as long as it's without the kids.  I'm not entirely sure why.  I mean, they're being good, so it isn't that.  Maybe I just need some grown-up time.  And it's so sad that even when we moms get together, all we talk about are the kids.
 
Who knew that being a mom would be so all-consuming?  I mean, I knew that once I had kids my whole world would revolve around them.  But I had no idea that once I had kids, my whole world would revolve around them. :)
May 31

lil green patch

 
April 27

Why women don't always tell the whole truth

from an email i got...

One day, when a seamstress was sewing while sitting close to a river, her thimble fell into the river. When she cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, 'My dear child, why are you crying?' The seamstress replied that her thimble had fallen into the water and that she needed it to help her husband in making a living for their family. The Lord dipped His hand into the water and pulled up a golden thimble set with sapphires.
  
Is this your thimble?' the Lord asked, The seamstress replied, 'No.'

The Lord again dipped into the river. He held out a golden thimble studded with rubies.                                                            
'Is this your thimble?' the Lord asked. Again, the seamstress replied, 'No.'

The Lord reached down again and came up with a leather thimble.                                                   
'Is this your thimble ?' the Lord asked. The seamstress replied, 'Yes.'

The Lord was pleased with the woman's honesty and gave her all three thimbles to keep, and the seamstress went home happy.

Some years later, the seamstress was walking with her husband along the riverbank, and her husband fell into the river and disappeared under the water. When she cried out, the Lord again appeared and asked her, 'Why are you crying?' 'Oh Lord, my husband has fallen into the river!'
                            
The Lord went down into the water and came up with George Clooney.. 'Is this your husband?' the Lord asked.
                             
'Yes,' cried the seamstress.
 
The Lord was furious. 'You lied! That is an untruth!' The seamstress replied, 'Oh, forgive me, my Lord. It is a misunderstanding. You see, if I had said 'no' to George Clooney, you would have come up with Brad Pitt.  Then if I said 'no' to him, you would have come up with my husband. Had I then said 'yes,' you would have given me all three. Lord, I'm not in the best of health and would not be able to take care of all three husbands, so THAT'S why I said 'yes' to George Clooney.

And so the Lord let her keep him.


The moral of this story is: Whenever a woman lies, it's for a good and honorable reason, and in the best interest of others. That's our story, and we're sticking to it.

                                 Signed,
                                All Us Women

August 09

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July 07

im still me... right?

so i was writing an email earlier giving people an update on my life.  and i wrote, nothing new-- same old, same old.  but now i realize thats not quite true.
Aging Woman
-- i have 1/3 of the hair i used to
-- i have 10 more pounds on me than i used to
-- my brain not working so good as it used to did
-- i can't remember simple words anymore
-- i can no longer navigate my way anywhere with a map-- its either upside-down or... i dont know, the wrong state
-- i havent gotten a full night's sleep in... oh, 4ish years
-- it takes me 7 weeks to read a book that used to take 7 hours.
-- i drive a minivan-- a MINIVAN!
-- i swear, some days i think i hear my bones creak
-- i can see where my first wrinkles will be someday-- in the far, faaarrr off future, i hope
 
theres more, of course, but ive hurt my brain just thinking of these...  oiy, my head!  Lumpy  
 
  

where ive been

 
 
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